Saturday, January 31, 2015

Cynic or Romantic?


An excerpt from Khalil Gibran's 'Reason and passion'

Your reason and your passion are the rudder and the sails of your seafaring soul.
If either your sails or your rudder be broken, you can but toss and drift, or else be held at a standstill in mid-seas.
For reason, ruling alone, is a force confining; and passion, unattended, is a flame that burns to its own destruction.
Therefore let your soul exalt your reason to the height of passion, that it may sing;
And let it direct your passion with reason, that your passion may live through its own daily resurrection, and like the phoenix rise above its own ashes.

I would have you consider your judgement and your appetite even as you would two loved guests in your house.
Surely you would not honour one guest above the other; for he who is more mindful of one loses the love and the faith of both.
Among the hills, when you sit in the cool shade of the white poplars, sharing the peace and serenity of distant fields and meadows – then let your heart say in silence, “God rests in reason.”
And when the storm comes, and the mighty wind shakes the forest, and thunder and lightning proclaim the majesty of the sky, – then let your heart say in awe, “God moves in passion.”
And since you are a breath in God’s sphere, and a leaf in God’s forest, you too should rest in reason and move in passion
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(Please stress on the lines in Italics and Bold)

So Cynic or Romantic??

Cynicism is a consequence of reason and Romanticism is a consequence of passion. Reason calms you and Passion motivates you.

So the answer to the question in context - "Cynic and Romantic"

Saturday, January 17, 2015

Transaged



Blood gushing up and down... Hot-blood
Heart pumping and pounding
vigour, rigour and colour.

Communion of mind and body...cold blood
All engrossed in the chaotic
Tuned,damped and stilled.

Learning and loving to live
Vulnerability is the key
Explore, expose and experience

Teaching and preaching to recede
Mindfulness is the key
Conditioned, comforted and closed

Life is sacred
Connections in solitude
measure, treasure and persevere

Death is engraved
Loneliness in connections
Embraced, encompassed and the inevitable end


(PS: I am 29.. But I wonder whether I am 18 or 60. After all, age is just a number)

Sunday, January 11, 2015

One world... Many worlds


I enter a small world to face many worlds
And many faces face the black board
Or.... Just facing black
Where are the worlds?

Floating...... Floundering
Cosmetic... Cosmostic
Exciting.....Excruciating
What are the worlds?

An effort to bridge the world
With chalk, talk, questions and equations?
A bridge too fragile
Why are there many worlds?

Floundering in floating
Floundering to floating
Cosmetics to beautify
And cosmostics to enhance the beauty
Excitement and Excruciation
Are never a lonely world

Many worlds make one world
Let my one world become
One of their.... Many worlds

Chivalrous - What does it mean?





I can infer only two things here

1) The man is chivalrous - Being courteous, especially towards women (weaker sex???). My point here is, the girl in the picture is not incapable of sitting on chair.. So why gender stereotyping?? It does not make sense. However the following picture does makes sense




But no body reads the above picture as being chivalrous... It is plain humanity to help people in need....

2) Expression of love

I googled a lot to find the picture of a beautiful young girl making a handsome fit boy sit on a chair.. Could not get...(In fact I found the same set of pictures of a man helping a woman to sit on a chair. Try it yourself). If it is expression of love and gender independent, I should have got the picture as easily as I got the first one... However, I got a lot of pictures like the one below. In fact roughly 50:50 ratio


Having said the above, I find the below picture interesting




But I would not call it "Being chivalrous"... Why?

Let us assume for the couple in picture and at that point in time, it is easier for the man to carry heavier load than the woman. So it makes perfect sense for him to carry the load. But I need to be careful about this picture. Am I stereotyping the difference in physical between a man and a woman?

No..... I don't think so

Though it is statistically true, I am not stereotyping. That is why I mentioned 'for the couple in picture' and "at that point in time". It would equally make sense for the woman to carry a heavier load if she was stronger.. In future, the woman (in picture) might get stronger and carry the heavier one.. Who knows what is in store for future?

Have a look at this picture



Again we would not call her chivalrous for sparing the man the trouble of child birth. It is just that 'at this point in time', it is not possible (mostly) for a man to give birth.. So it makes sense for a woman to give birth.. Who knows what is in store for future?....

So.... What is being chivalrous???

Friday, January 2, 2015

What next?

Joint family--Nuclear family--Single child family--DINK Couples--Living together..... What next?

I am not going to detail on the joint family to living together evolution.... It is well studied and all over.. I am curious on the "what next" question.

So, What next?.. Here is my prediction.. "Living not together relationship"

I think we will be so individualistic (Not saying in a negative or a positive tone), that we would want to exist in a relationship yet not live together.... And so,

"Living not together relationship".. I know there exists LAT Couples.. But I liked my terminology better :-)... And I see it coming in India...

What after that?.. I am quite sure that I am not capable of even remotely imagining that...